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Wedding GIFTING

A wedding is more than a single day—it is the joining of lives, families, and stories. A moment that honors not only the love between two people, but the relationships that have shaped them and gathered in celebration.
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Our curated wedding gifts are chosen with that meaning in mind. Each one reflects the journey of the couple and the connections they share with those closest to them—gifts that carry intention, gratitude, and story.
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An elevated gift experience should feel intimate and effortless, honoring both the present moment and the memories it creates. To give in this way is to acknowledge the depth of love, the significance of the union, and the people who made it possible.
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Elegant gold jewelry with pearl earrings, decorative hairpins, a monogrammed white handkerchief, a patterned decorative tray, and a Tiffany & Co. blue box with a gold hanger.
Fourfold TradItional Suite
A collection of thoughtful, personal, and exquisitely curated gifts honoring the bride’s journey. Each piece reflects the timeless symbols of “Something Old, Something New, Something Borrowed, and Something Blue,” weaving together tradition, love, and the stories of those who cherish her. Designed to celebrate her unique path, this suite is both a keepsake and a tribute—a heartfelt reflection of the bonds that surround her on her wedding day.
Leather bag, bottle of Bardstown bourbon, four bird-illustrated whiskey glasses, black bow tie, and wooden box with 'B' logo on a white background.
Groom’s Honor Suite
A distinguished collection of thoughtfully curated gifts celebrating the groom’s journey. Each piece embodies respect, loyalty, and timeless refinement, honoring the values he holds and the loved ones who stand beside him. Designed to reflect his individuality and the significance of his role, this suite offers both keepsakes and meaningful gestures—a tribute to the groom and the enduring bonds that surround him on his wedding day.
Person in floral blouse displaying a wooden box with pink feather earrings beside another wooden box containing a feather bow tie on a table with fabric swatches and documents.
Bridesmaid Gift Edit
A curated collection celebrating the cherished women who stand by the bride. Each gift is designed to honor their friendship, support, and the special role they play on her journey. Timeless, personal, and distinctive, this suite offers keepsakes that reflect gratitude, love, and the shared memories that make her wedding day unforgettable.
Folded blue patterned button-up shirt with Ray-Ban sunglasses and case, leather wristband with pouch, and an open deck of playing cards on a white surface.
Groomsmen Gift Edit
A carefully curated collection honoring the men who stand steadfastly beside the groom. Each gift is designed to celebrate loyalty, friendship, and the unique bond shared on this special day. Timeless, personal, and distinctive, this suite offers keepsakes that convey gratitude, respect, and the enduring camaraderie that marks the groom’s journey.
White and red boutonniere pinned to a black tuxedo jacket with a white shirt and pocket square.
The Heritage Collection
A thoughtfully curated suite honoring the parents who have guided, supported, and shaped the journey of the bride and groom. Each gift is selected to reflect gratitude, love, and the timeless role they hold in the lives of their children. Distinguished, personal, and meaningful, this collection offers keepsakes that celebrate legacy, devotion, and the enduring bonds of family.
Flat lay of a beige and navy tote bag with a blue handle and letter R, a floral champagne bottle, two champagne flutes, a folded blue fringed scarf, and a black candle with a wooden lid.
The Hospitality Suite
A curated collection of thoughtful gifts designed to welcome and delight the loved ones who have traveled near and far for your celebration. Each item is chosen to offer comfort, care, and a touch of elegance, ensuring every guest feels cherished from the moment they arrive. Personal, refined, and memorable, this suite transforms a simple stay into an experience of warmth, gratitude, and hospitality.
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REFLECTIONS

The Fourfold Tradtional Suite

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Decorative monogrammed white handkerchief, green jewelry boxes with drop earrings and hairpins, white ribbon with blue monogram, gold hanger, white and gold patterned dish, and a Tiffany blue box on a white surface.Two people at a table with fabric swatches, decorative plates, wood boxes, an Alderhaus jewelry pouch with a brooch, and a glass of beverage.Person holding open green jewelry box showing gold and diamond earrings, surrounded by decorative plate with brooch, fabric swatches, and wooden boxes on a table.
objective:
This gift was curated for a bride by her mother, with the intention of honoring tradition while reflecting her daughter’s timeless, elegant style. Inspired by the “something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue” tradition, the mother of the bride wanted each piece to feel meaningful—carefully chosen to complement the wedding day while symbolically connecting past, present, and future.

The goal was to create a gift that felt deeply personal, beautiful in its details, and rich with sentiment.
process:
Our approach centered on honoring the bride’s classic aesthetic while weaving in family history and tradition. Each element was selected with care, not only for how it would look on the wedding day, but for the story it carried.

We sourced a vintage brass wedding dress hanger from Poland, a thoughtful nod to the bride’s family heritage. The hanger was adorned with a soft white grosgrain ribbon, embroidered with the bride and groom’s monogram—an elegant detail designed to live on in photographs and memory.

Working closely with a local jeweler, we designed diamond drop earrings and coordinating hair pins, tailored to complement both the bride’s gown and her desired hairstyle. These pieces were meant to feel timeless—something she could wear again, long after the wedding day.

A linen handkerchief, embroidered with the wedding date and monogram, was included for the quiet, emotional moments the day would bring. And to anchor the gift in legacy, we included the Tiffany champagne glasses used by the bride’s parents on their own wedding day—a deeply sentimental piece connecting generations through shared celebration.

The gift was completed with a heartfelt letter from mother to daughter, tying each element together with words that only she could offer.
client  feedback:
The mother later shared:
‍“Giving this gift felt like a gift to me. My daughter was moved to tears. I will treasure that moment always.”

‍A reminder that the most meaningful gifts often become shared moments—held not just by the one receiving, but by the one giving as well.

Groomsmen Gift Edit

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Folded blue patterned button-up shirt with Ray-Ban sunglasses and case, leather wristband with pouch, and an open deck of playing cards on a white surface.Black box labeled 'The Gentleman's Deck' with instruction cards spread out beside a blue patterned shirt and a leather bracelet on a black drawstring pouch.
objective:
The intention behind this gift was to honor friendship—specifically, the distinct relationships a groom shared with each of his groomsmen. He reached out wanting to give gifts ahead of his bachelor party, not as a formality, but as a meaningful gesture that reflected the history, personalities, and shared experiences within the group.

Rather than offering identical gifts, his goal was to acknowledge each groomsman individually, while still creating a cohesive experience tied to the trip they were about to take together.
process:
The groom shared that a central part of their bachelor weekend would be a golf tournament—a setting that naturally lent itself to camaraderie, competition, and time together. With that in mind, we curated gifts that were both personal and practical, designed to be worn, used, and enjoyed throughout the weekend.

We sourced UNC Gameday Polos as a nod to where these friendships began—their alma mater and the foundation of so many shared memories. The polos served as a subtle tribute to the early days that shaped their bond.

To complement the experience, we included Ray-Ban sunglasses, each pair engraved with the individual groomsman’s monogram on the temple. We paired them with handcrafted leather sunglass straps from Clayton & Crum, also monogrammed—adding both function and a refined personal detail.

The groom described his group as fun-loving, competitive, and unwaveringly supportive of one another. To reflect that spirit, we included a gentlemen’s deck of cards, tying the collection together with a piece that invited downtime, laughter, and friendly rivalry.

Each gift was thoughtfully assembled to feel cohesive while still honoring the individuality of each relationship—something meaningful now, and long after the weekend had passed.
client  feedback:
The groom’s response said it all:
‍“Beyond my expectations. They’re going to love these.”

‍A gift that felt personal, intentional, and perfectly suited for the moments they were about to share together.

groom's honor suite

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Dark leather bag with buckles, glass whiskey tumblers with bird illustrations, black leather zippered pouch, black feather bow tie, and a bottle of Bardstown bourbon.Bottle of Bardstown Bourbon Company whiskey with four glass tumblers featuring bird illustrations and a dark brown leather bag on a white surface.
objective:
This gift was curated for a bride who wanted to surprise her husband-to-be with something as thoughtful and distinctive as he is. The groom is effortlessly stylish, quietly sophisticated, and deeply proud of his Southern roots. The intention was to create a gift that felt personal, refined, and celebratory — honoring his sense of style while reflecting the traditions and spirit that shaped him. The goal was to assemble a collection that felt meaningful, elevated, and worthy of the occasion.
process:
Our approach centered on blending timeless style with subtle nods to heritage and celebration. Each piece was selected to complement the groom’s aesthetic while enhancing the wedding day experience.

We began with a statement accessory: the Rice Bow Tie crafted from jet black goose feathers by Brackish. Its structured elegance and rich texture made it a natural choice — a modern heirloom that perfectly balanced boldness and refinement.

Knowing the day would be filled with moments of camaraderie and celebration, we incorporated elements designed to be shared. A handcrafted leather case was sourced to hold the groom’s favorite bottle from Bardstown Bourbon Company, pairing craftsmanship with sentiment. To complete the experience, we included Birds of Prey glasses from Uncommon Goods, chosen for their distinctive character and conversational charm.

Together, these pieces created a gift that was both stylish and experiential — something to elevate not just his look, but the memories made with his closest friends.

The gift was completed with a handwritten letter from the bride to her groom, grounding the collection in emotion and personal connection.
client  feedback:
The bride later shared: “He was completely surprised. Watching him open it — seeing how much he appreciated every detail — was one of my favorite moments of the entire wedding.”
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A reminder that the most memorable gifts are rarely about the objects themselves, but the meaning, intention, and love behind them.

The Hospitality Suite

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Flat lay of a beige and navy tote bag with a blue handle and letter R, a floral champagne bottle, two champagne flutes, a folded blue fringed scarf, and a black candle with a wooden lid.
objective:
This welcome gift was curated for a couple who wanted their guests’ first experience of the wedding to feel intentional, warm, and deeply celebratory. From the moment of arrival, the goal was to create a sense of belonging — a gesture that reflected gratitude, hospitality, and the joyful tone of the weekend ahead.

The intention was to offer something both beautiful and practical, blending refinement with comfort in a way that mirrored the spirit of the celebration.
process:
Our approach centered on crafting a welcome that felt elevated yet inviting — a thoughtful balance of elegance and ease.

To anchor the presentation, we selected a monogrammed canvas boxy tote from Mark and Graham. The structured silhouette offered a polished aesthetic while remaining functional, a keepsake guests could continue using long after the festivities.

Inside, we curated elements designed to immediately set the celebratory mood. A set of champagne glasses from Tiffany & Co. introduced a sense of occasion — timeless, iconic, and perfectly suited for the toasts to come.

A striking bottle of Brut champagne from Alexandria Cellars was included not only for enjoyment, but for its visual presence. The beauty of the bottle itself served as a subtle preview of the floral design language guests would later encounter at the wedding, creating a quiet continuity between welcome and event.

To complement the celebratory pieces, we added a cashmere wrap — a gesture of comfort and care. Chosen with the setting in mind, it offered warmth against the cool spring evenings of upstate New York, ensuring guests felt considered well beyond the ceremony.
Together, the items created a welcome that felt cohesive, gracious, and memorable.
client  feedback:
The couple later shared:“Our guests were completely blown away. It felt like the perfect reflection of the weekend — beautiful, welcoming, and so thoughtful.”
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A reminder that hospitality, when approached with intention, becomes part of the celebration itself.

the design

Process

step one

Inquiry

Begin by completing our inquiry form. This allows us to gather a few key details and understand your needs, timeline, and overall vision.
step two

Connection

You’ll receive a prompt response from us, and we’ll schedule a complimentary phone consultation. This is a chance to connect, ask questions, and ensure we’re aligned.
step three

design direction

Once we’ve decided we’re the right fit for one another, you’ll complete our design questionnaire. This thoughtful step helps us fully understand your style, goals, and intentions.
step four

initial design

Using your responses, we curate an initial gift design concept for your review—considered, cohesive, and tailored to you.
step five

refinement & creation

We collaborate on refinements until the design feels just right. Once approved and payment is complete, we take it from there—sourcing, assembling, and building your gifts with care.
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FAQ

1. What types of gifting does Alderhaus specialize in?

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Alderhaus curates meaningful gifts for corporate relationships, weddings, and personal milestones. From client and team recognition to wedding parties, life moments, and “just because,” every gift is designed to honor connection, story, and gratitude.

2. How personalized are the gifts?

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Deeply. We begin by listening—learning about the recipient, the relationship, and the moment being recognized. From product selection to messaging and presentation, each gift is thoughtfully composed to feel personal, intentional, and true to the story behind it.

3. Do all gifts include a letter or note?

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Yes. Every Alderhaus gift includes a personal note. Whether written by you or crafted with our guidance, the letter is an essential part of the experience—bringing voice, meaning, and emotion to the gift.

4. Who are the artists and makers you work with?

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We partner with independent artists, makers, and small businesses whose work reflects craftsmanship, integrity, and story. Many of the pieces we source are created in collaboration with these partners, allowing us to support their growth while offering something truly special to our clients.

5. How involved do I need to be in the process?

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As involved as you’d like. Some clients enjoy collaborating closely, while others prefer to trust us with every detail. Either way, we manage the process with care and precision—making gifting feel seamless, thoughtful, and well-executed.

6. Is Alderhaus a good fit for corporate gifting?

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Absolutely. We work with businesses who want to recognize clients and teams in a meaningful way. Our corporate gifting experience is designed to reflect appreciation, strengthen relationships, and follow through on good intentions—without adding extra work to your plate.

7. What is the typical timeline for a curated gift?

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Timelines vary based on the level of customization and sourcing, but we’ll always guide you through expectations up front. Thoughtful gifting takes care, and we pride ourselves on balancing intention with reliability and clear communication.

8. How do I get started?

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Simply reach out through our contact form. We’ll begin with a conversation—learning about the people, relationships, and moments you wish to honor. From there, we’ll take care of the rest.

9. Can Alderhaus handle gifting at scale while maintaining quality?

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Yes. Whether curating a single meaningful gift or coordinating multiple gifts across teams or clients, we approach every order with the same level of care and attention to detail. Scale never comes at the expense of intention—each gift is handled as if it were the only one.

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Our Story
Gift giving has always been my love language.
I’ve always been deeply invested in learning the stories of the people around me—listening closely, noticing the details, and remembering what matters most to them.
I believe that genuine curiosity about others leads to deeper understanding, and that understanding is where true connection begins.
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